Les Beehive – Bo and Su answer your love and sex questions
How do I explore my bicuriosity without being a jerk or hurting anyone?
Bo: Don’t be a jerk or hurt anyone. Be kind and considerate; be honest with yourself and your partners. Tell your partners that you’re exploring your sexuality and that you’re not sure yet if you’re gay/straight/bisexual. Make sure your partner understands this when entering into a relationship. Now if you just want to explore having sex with both sexes, well go forth and fuck! Be safe! Have fun! Don’t make a decision based on one sexual experience. No damage will be done by having sex with a man if you end up deciding you’re interested in women, and vice versa.
Su: What I used to tell my bicurious friends when they were wanting to explore was to do one of two things. Either find another bicurious person and do some exploring together, or find a bi or gay playmate to explore with. In either case make sure that this person understands what your intentions are. Be clear, communicate, and keep that person in the loop about how you’re reacting to these new feelings. You’re entering into new territory and you don’t know yet how it will make you feel. Make sure you have options available to you if you want more or if you want out.
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